If you’re an adult or just trying to be one, this is the show for you!
From navigating their relationship, finances, health and wellness goals, Andrew and Daniella openly discuss topical events going on in their lives with some help from expert guests and fun celebrities! Nothing’s off the table when this mother/father duo dive deep into all things ADULTING.
Get to Know Us
DANIELLA MONET
Actress, ethical entrepreneur, and now mom of two, Daniella Monet is all about keeping it one hundo these days. She may be best known as her quirky, drama queen characters like Trina Vega from Victorious but irl Daniella is just like everyone else... trying to adult.
ANDREW GARDNER
A former CPA and sales wiz, Andrew's life changed when his children, Gio and Ivry, were born. Those monumental moments prompted him to switch gears, leave the corporate world behind, and dive deep into his passions. Today, he encourages his audience to do the same and live their lives with no regrets.
Listen to our top episodes
SEASON ONE EPISODES
A Labor of Love: Daniella and Andrew's birth story exclusive on episode ONE of Adulting Like a Mother Father!
Jay Shetty plays "30 in 30": This time it's Jay who hops into the hot seat for some friendly rapid-fire personal questions from Daniella and Andrew!
Love...ACTUALLY. Daniella and Andrew get into the nitty gritty of their complicated engagement, their very first date and the many relationships hurdles they've overcome as a team.
A MOM-UMENTAL trip down memory lane: Parenting tips, secrets, wins, fails and hard truths from two seasoned experts...Daniella's and Andrew's moms! (Spoiler alert: everyone cries)
Daniella and Andrew talk through one of their tougher days managing a new baby AND two dogs who aren't used to sharing their parents.
A very Victorious reunion! Daniella's former Nickelodeon co-star Leon Thomas is in-studio to share his thoughts on a Victorious reboot, his dating life and his absolutely booming career as an actor, musician and producer.
All about the Benjamins, baby! Expert financial planner Shannon McLay is on the pod to chat how to beat the shame around messy money habits and become financially fit for your future.
Countdown to 2020! Daniella and Andrew talk new-year-new-goals and "calmly" "discuss" how the word "non-negotiable" might mean very different things to each of them.
Hush Little Baby...PLEASE?! Hear all about how 2020 welcomed Daniella and Andrew with non-stop sleepless nights and a baby who just won't let up.
Evanna Lynch (Harry Potter films, Kinder Beauty) joins the show to talk on-set romances, co-founding Kinder Beauty, and the importance of self care.
Putting your money where your mouth is! Jayde Nicole discusses the benefits of throwing your time, care and money behind a cause you care about (shout out to Sugar Taco!)
Seeking Balance and Prioritizing Mental Health with YouTube star and Entrepreneur Megan Batoon
"See what had happened was": with "Now What!?" podcast host and reality star Jessica Nickson
SEASON TWO EPISODES
Daniella and Andrew expand on the podcast announcement from last week and reflect on their journey so far. They look at some of the past episode topics, discuss some of their favorite guests and share a message with the listeners.
Daniella talks about an exciting new opportunity and why she feels the need to shift focus. Due to this, Daniella and Andrew make an announcement regarding the podcast and have a message for the Adulting Like a Mother Father community. Then they talk to psychotherapist & coach Jessica Baum (@jessicabaumlmhc). Jessica breaks down attachment theory and its importance in a relationship. Daniella and Andrew read listener questions and also get personal in order to better understand their own relationship. Lots of great relationship advice in this one!
Check out Jessica's book for more details:
https://www.amazon.com/Anxiously-Attached-Becoming-More-Secure/dp/0593331060
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Daniella and Andrew talk to the woman behind the content, Kellie Daniel. You may have seen some of her work as Kellie has worked hard to help many of the businesses related to Adulting. Kellie tells the story of how she first came into contact with Daniella and Andrew and how she found her calling in the world of entertainment. She also discusses some challenges she faced on her journey and what she learned from those experiences. Daniella and Andrew discover what dating was like during the pandemic and talk about the things they are looking forward to in the near future.
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Daniella and Andrew talk about gratitude and how they are learning to approach life in a different way. Then they talk to Sidney Raskind (@sidneyraz). King of all adulting content on TikTok, Sidney talks about how he built his platform and what kept him going after years of false starts. He also talks about the "sweet spot" in terms of content creation and what he hopes to accomplish in the future.
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Daniella and Andrew fly out to Dallas to attend Matt Bennett's iParty. Find out how it went down and what was it like for Daniella to be back on stage after a long time off. They also talk about Mother's Day and how Daniella reconnected with a childhood friend. Then Daniella and Andrew talk to Marissa Bronfman about impact investing. Marissa Bronfman is passionate about investing in things you believe in. She shows us how money can be used to have a positive impact on the planet. She then describes her investing tips, how to have a "money mindset" and recommends books to get started.
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Daniella and Andrew struggle when it comes to disciplining the kids which opens up a discussion on nature vs nurture. They also talk about their trip to Stagecoach and debut some new segments!
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Daniella and Andrew talk about their recent night out which they have named a parent "extravaganza". They also get into their big wins and fails for the week which include a story about Andrew having to fight a girl. Then they talk to Dr. Manasa Mantravadi who tells us about the dangers of using plastics in our everyday lives. She explains how plastics affect our hormones which are especially important during childhood development. She also describes the problems with the US food standards compared to the EU. Find out what she means when she says "Stainless Steel is Inert".
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Daniella and Andrew talk to writer and producer Heidi Clements. Daniella met Heidi on the set of the show Baby Daddy where she worked as an executive producer and writer. Heidi describes the negatives about working in show business and why it's easy to be labeled a "mean" person when you are naturally an introvert. Heidi goes into detail of what life is like in Hollywood for women over a certain age and how the network TV system kills creativity. She then discusses childhood trauma and its lasting impacts. This is a deep discussion that you don't want to miss!
Daniella and Andrew talk to actress, model, reality TV and radio personality Jessica Hall. Jessica talks about her days modeling for Playboy and the infamous Playboy mansion parties. Jessica describes how she had to hustle for any opportunities that were available and worked hard to avoid the pitfalls surrounding that world. She also gets into what it was like having a significant other during her tenure as a model and what life is like now as a mom of two.
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Andrew turns 34 and reflects on where he's at in life and where he wants to go. Then Andrew and Daniella sit down to talk to Jes Hagan (@hermoodmentor) about all things PMDD.
Jes is a period educator, integrative menstrual health coach, and fertility awareness method instructor who specializes a cyclical reproductive mood disorder known as- Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder. She is the lead menstruator at Her Mood Mentor where she works both 1:1 and in group settings to empower, educate, and support other women and menstruators in healing hormonal imbalances and PMDD. Jes's practice is rooted in the belief that the body has an innate capacity to heal but believes that a lack cycle awareness education & training in symptom management tools is hindering individuals ability to cope with the natural, monthly biological process of menstruation. At Her Mood Mentor she approaches the menstrual cycle as the body's 5th vital sign and advocates for the principles of informed consent, self-efficacy and body literacy.
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Andrew talks about his recent lifestyle change and how it has affected his daily routine. He also talks about a recent discussion he had with a friend about God. Then Daniella and Andrew talk to Ashlee Belfiore (@healthbyshlee) about living a non-toxic lifestyle. Ashlee describes how we are exposed to toxins every day and the simple choices she makes to reduce exposure to those toxins. She also offers tips for living a non-toxic life and great products that help to reduce toxins in the home. Check out her website to learn more www.ashleebelfiore.com
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Daniella and Andrew sit down with bestselling author Dr. Will Bulsiewicz, AKA Dr. B, for an in-depth conversation about gut health. Dr. B describes how the conventional healthcare model makes huge mistakes by not acknowledging diet and lifestyle. He also talks about the history of the healthcare system why it has developed flaws as time went on. Daniella describes her own health journey and why she's wary of the current healthcare system. Dr. B talks about the correlation between a plant-based lifestyle and a healthy gut and why fiber is so important to feeling good. Additionally, they discuss how to get your kids to make healthier food choices and restrictive eating vs intuitive eating. Go to theplantfedgut.com to learn more!
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Daniella lands her first acting job in three years, but there are a few hiccups on the way there. Listen to hear how Daniella's key hogging habits left Andrew and the kids stranded. Also, Andrew describes how he almost got scammed but managed to realize that there was a problem before it was too late. Then they talk to Abbey, Daniella's dad’s wife, to hear her experience donating a kidney to her childhood friend. Abbey describes the intense process she had to go through and what she was feeling the day of the surgery. She also gives us some amazing facts about kidneys!
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Daniella and Andrew decide to record after they had been previously arguing for an hour and a half. They break down the argument and describe how the latest developments with the rebuild have left them with feelings of instability which contributed to them turning on each other. They realize that they keep hitting roadblocks when it comes to arguing and that their individual styles can prolong fights longer than they need to be. It all comes down to communication and feeling heard and goes to show that even Adulters don't get it right all the time.
Andrew and Daniella talk to Kenny Wiggins (@wigdaddy60) former NFL guard and Andrew's childhood best friend. Andrew and Kenny have been friends since the 7th grade and they talk about growing up in Sacramento and the lessons they learned from watching their families struggle to make ends meet. Kenny also talks about what it is like being in business with your spouse and offers great insight to couples struggling with infertility.
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Andrew and Daniella talk about letting loose while on a weekend wine tasting trip and then talk to Former Olympic Gymnast Shawn Johnson and NFL player Andrew East. Shawn and Andrew host Couple Things Podcast (https://www.couplethingspod.com)
Andrew and Daniella find out what it was like for the couple to pursue their athletic dreams while dating and get tips on maintaining their relationship amidst the chaos of having kids.
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Daniella and Andrew poll the audience to help them decide on changes to the podcast. Daniella is struggling to live in construction as the house continues to get built but her spirits are uplifted when she discovers a connection to Megan Fox. Both Andrew and Daniella see the importance of community as they slowly build up relationships in their new town. Daniella and Andrew talk about what they did for Valentine’s Day and Andrew offers up some of his flower tips. They also answer podcast listeners’ BURNING questions.
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Daniella and Andrew finally move into the new house! However, the feeling is bittersweet because although they are officially moved in, the house needs a lot of work and things are moving SLOW. Daniella gets an unexpected call from her brother and discusses celebrating small wins but also managing expectations. Andrew is learning how part of adulting involves dealing with confrontation, be that with busy contractors or finicky new neighbors. They also read responses from listeners who describe the first time they felt like an adult which leads Daniella to discuss the time she was kicked out of school.
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While the house is getting finished, Andrew and Daniella have been staying at a ranch. Sadly, it is time for them to hit the old dusty trail. They detail what their life was like on the ranch and realize that, although life back at home awaits them, this ranch might have changed their plans for the future. While discussing the transition to the new home, Daniella's voice reveals some hesitancy about the move, which Andrew picks up on immediately. What follows is a great discussion about transition, health and self-care.
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Andrew's back! Daniella tells Andrew what it was like doing an episode without him. Now in their new home, they describe their feelings on moving out of the house where they shared so many family milestones in. While discussing the new place, Daniella reveals that she has had bouts of uncomfortable laughter and describes social situations that have made things extremely awkward. Also, they answer rapid-fire questions from listeners.
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Daniella is solo today and she doesn't hold back. Listen as she details why it has been such an eventful and stressful week. After she takes advantage of her chance to vent, she also answers listener questions! Daniella addresses the possibility of a Victorious reunion, updates on her brother, confidence tips, the way she and Andrew split finances, her favorite episode of Victorious, and more.
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Daniella and Andrew elaborate further on their plans for 2022. They also discuss how their individual approach to life differs, exemplified most recently while buying appliances for the new house. Daniella also discusses the need to feel settled and her desire for simpler, more meaningful things in her life. Then they answer listener questions dealing with tips for raising vegan babies, Gio and formula, birth control, and their new business ventures.
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Andrew and Daniella are manifesting things for the new year. On this week's episode they read each others personal, professional and relationship goals for 2022. Are they aligned relationship wise? Where do they see the podcast going next year? Does Andrew want to add another kid to the bunch? Find out what they are looking forward to and what they are leaving in the past!
Daniella briefly touches on the medical emergency that led to them missing last week's recording but which did lead to a funny exchange between Andrew and a doctor. Daniella also talks about the overwhelming week she had and why she thinks society needs to talk about hormones more. After giving an update on her acting offer, Daniella springs a surprise game of Naughty or Nice on Andrew.
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Andrew learns to bite the bullet and spend money on the things they need while Daniella breaks her toe and spends time in Candy Cane Lane. Andrew also gets a chance to share his favorite Christmas movie with the kids. Do they end up enjoying it as much as he does?
Although Daniella had made peace with potentially being away from acting for a while, she just received an offer for a new movie role and surprises Andrew with the news. Together they discuss what taking the role would mean for the family and they reminisce about the last time they were on set together.
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Daniella and Andrew discuss Kinder Beauty's recent growth, baby hairs and renovation delays caused by their loan application. Then, Gio does a surprise drop-in to talk about his first sleepover. Daniella and Andrew also answer questions from listeners such as how to set boundaries with your parents, how they deal with jealousy, and how they keep it spicy in the bedroom.
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Daniella and Andrew get into the blow up that resulted in not releasing an episode last week. Daniella explains how her lack of attention to detail, while unideal at times, actually worked out for the best at a recent baby shower she attended. The couple adopt the HODL (Hold on For Dear Life) mentality when it comes navigating finances and family life, and Andrew expresses that he is still learning to live in the present. Also, Daniella is shook by the reality of the food industry after watching the recent documentary "They're Trying to Kill Us."
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On this episode of Adulting, Andrew talks about losing his patience with Gio and Daniella talks about having friends over, a rare occurrence, which gives her a chance to try out a new word. They both discuss forcing yourself to live in the moment, checking out, and checking into family life by narrowing their focus and not spreading themselves thin on projects. Then they describe the tattoos they got when they were younger and contemplate getting a few new ones.
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Daniella and Andrew detail their Halloween and Daniella describes how she went down an anxiety spiral while dealing with Ivry. Andrew goes to great lengths to pick the perfect appliance for the new house and both discuss the possibility of a new business venture in their new community. Also, Daniella tries to uncover Andrew's service industry dating history.
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Daniella and Andrew talk about the possibility of getting engaged again which leads to a discussion of celebrity couples that have struggled with commitment. Daniella then describes taking the kids to Gentle Barn, a farm filled with rescued animals, and how important it is to teach kids about the fair treatment of animals. Later they answer questions from listeners that include what would have happened if Andrew never became vegan, where they hope to be in 10 years, what's next for Fit Like a MF, and how to grow deeper in love.
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LISTENER REVIEWS
Ever since I decided to listen to this
podcast, I have not put it down. I have been listening to this podcast everyday and I have to say, I can relate so much, and it helps me understand that I’m not alone and we are all humans !! The reality of this couple is incredibly beautiful and honest. Thank you so much for helping me find my calmness and confidence as a parent and human being!
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Flo D.
The raw honest truth about parenting is amazing. As an expecting mother I love hearing all the helpful hints and the truth about being a parent. Too many people try to sugarcoat it, so thank you for your honesty! Also the episodes with other people with the interviews I love I feel like I’m a part of the conversation. Please keep the podcasts coming!
- Ali L.
I look forward to every Tuesday because of this podcast and this podcast alone! It’s super relatable, entertaining, and I always get something out of it. Even if you don’t have kids this podcast offers laughs, honest perspectives on real life topics/struggles, motivation, and all the feels for couples, singles, and all adults alike.
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